Get this.
My boyfriend fucks up (as always right?) and I'm obviously upset and ignore his calls for the rest of yesterday and today, not that he even TRIED to call that much anyway. 5 calls max is what I counted TOTAL for both days. He fucks up and dares to accuse me of cheating on him just because I don't answer his calls.
Now, this is a stupid fight, so why bother posting it? I'm done texting him and arguing about it with a thick headed man. He'll find just ANY excuse won't he? Any excuse at all that won't involve HIM admitting that HE'S wrong and SORRY. Whatever. What can I do?
His MOTHER AND FATHER have bitched at him to treat me better and with more respect, his FRIENDS have told him to hold on to me and TREAT ME BETTER, I'VE told him to stop treating me like crap and treat me better. He doesn't listen to anyone. I'm sick of always getting mad and upset.
I told him it's over but you know how THAT always goes. Oh, we didn't even go to that party I told you guys about because he basically made the whole mood and excitement of it all HORRIBLE that entire week. You know, bitching and moaning about it, acting like he's forced to go. So I said forget it. We were SUPPOSED to go to the halloween event at club Avalon with Matt and a few other people but now that we're fighting, forget that shit.
I always have to cater to HIS ways. He doesn't cater to me. He never tries to balance me with his friends, he tries to SQUEEZE ME INTO HIS SCHEDULE ALONG WITH HIS FRIENDS. I don't mind the occasional hang out but fuck.. every time I'm down there? He doesn't spend quality time with me anymore and when I bring it up, he says it's because we never have anythign to do and we're always bored. WTF? He used to say just being with me made him happy. Guess THAT was a lie too, as is everything that comes out of his mouth, and believe me, there are PLENTY. I don't even know why I'm with him. Can I seriously love someone who can never put me on his list of priorities? No really, I'm not even on that list anymore and believe me, it's one short motherfucking list.
I don't see how being single would be so bad. It sounds very inviting right now. I'm sick of men in general.
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:( what a shit head. get rid of him. if he doesn't want to come back into your life and EARN his position there, then forget it. i'm tired of hearing all these stories about him treating you like shit.
then again i'm very biased against guys not prioritizing their girl at the top or near the top of their list.
oh honey i know exactly what you mean, my bf is EXACTLY like that.. all we can do is just have faith in the person and hope they can be better, although to tell you the truth, i got really fed up with him last week and broke it off and told him if he doesn't start listening to me then i don't want anything to do with him... that seem to kick a little bit of sense into him and he started treating me better... so maybe you should just shock your bf to treating you better, leave him for a bit, give each other some space and maybe he'll realise... :)
and btw... those WERE chicken nuggets :P my sister's friend snuck it in... yumm! :)
Honestly most guys do this.. even the best ones. It's just something you have to talk through and work out or else move on..
I hate it too. I always had to deal with not being his #1 priority, but honestly you can't always be a guy's #1 priority. For example, if his friend NEEDS him (like emergency, needs him), of course you may have to be his #2 and whatever. It's something I didn't really believe/learn until after my ex and I broke up.
Most guys don't think girls are waiting by the phone or counting the number of calls they get to reflect how regretful or sorry a guy is. They just don't think that way. So don't get too mad or hurt that he's only called you 5 times. He should definitely make more of an effort to communicate with you though, some texts/e-mails, etc would be good.
If the same issue keeps coming up, you really have to analyze things and try to see if things will ever change.. same thing happened to me =T.
Hrm I'm sorry SN didn't work out for you! It didn't enlarge my pores. It's so strange that that happened to you! And it's hilarious that your bf commented about your pores!!
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