:) my new boyfriend/love

So anyways.. this post will NOT be makeup related at all. In fact, it's more of an announcement. I've been keeping it hush hush on my twitter/facebook for a few days, simply because it's one of those things that I don't want to jinx.. since you know.. it was so early in the game.. I mean it still is.. but I feel more comfortable with everything now. Yes I said he. I've actually recently started tweeting about him a lot and officially changed my facebook status. LOLS, because that's just how our generation is now right? Nothing's official until you change your facebook status.

If you break up it doesn't mean anything. But if you change your fb status to single/divorced, it's like.. OMFG earth shattering shit, as if that's IT, there's no more chance of getting back together! hahahahah! Silly I know. But that's just how society is now.

Anyways. I suppose I'll just start at the beginning?

:) His name is Eric. Obviously I won't put his last name down. He's 21, I'm 22. He's never dated someone older and I've never dated someone younger, so it all works out. HAHAHHHA! We met at a mutual friend of a friend's birthday party in Beverly Hills, oh shit. I just realized I haven't uploaded those pictures up yet as well. Damn I'm really bad at updating this blog. Anyways, I'll give you MY point of view on how we met and then HIS point of view, which I know because I asked him. :p

him and his bike

so proud of him! USC grad with honors this year!!

My POV

I was originally NOT going to go to the party. I was in my pajamas and ready to SLEEP. My sister kept insisting I go and trying to pressure me into it.. and finally when they were about to leave, I caved and told them to wait a few minutes while I got ready (was not looking my best hahahahaha) so we drove there, we saw some cops parked outside their house and were really close to just turning around and leaving.. but we called the bday boy and he said it was fine. SO.... Walked in the door, said HI to everyone, saw him going over to grab something from the fridge. I don't know why he stood out to me.. it could be because he's 6'1 and everyone else was 5'7-5'11. He disappeared and I didn't think much of it. After meeting and greeting me and my duo of girls went outside to hang out where it was less stuffy. We sat down at a porch round table with some other people, I recognized him as the guy I first saw when I came in. He didn't talk to me at all. LOLS. So after a while I wanted to go to the pool room to play billiards, he followed. My sis asked me if I saw anyone there I thought was hot. I MISHEARD HER and thought she said "do you see anyone who might be interested in you?" so I pointed to Eric and said "he is". mistake. lols. SOOOO... Multiple times my sister tried to play cupid. After a round I left the room, kind of creeped out by him. He persisted in trying to talk to me. Eventually his gentlemanly ways got me to give him my number. I wasn't planning on ever picking up his call.. but a few days later I was forced by my little sister to call him and invite him to go clubbing with us at Opera. Surprisingly he agreed and that was the mark of our first date. I was hesitant because our first encounter had like.. ZERO CHEMISTRY.. but right when I saw him at my door, I got mad butterflies and that was the start of the most explosive chemistry I've ever felt with anyone in my life.

when we first met

His POV

He said he was at home in his pajamas ready to sleep as well since his mom was visiting from Asia that week and he was tired from taking her around the city. His roommate kept begging him to go with her for emotional support due to ahem... certain man issues that would be present at the party... he kept refusing but in the end he didn't understand why but he magically changed his mind right when she was about to leave. He was there before I was, so he said he didn't notice me when I first noticed him when he was getting something from the fridge.. but when he was sitting outside with his friends at the porch round table, he was tempted to just leave. Then I came down through the sliding doors with my two friends and ACCORDING TO HIM, he turned to his roommate and said "WOW.. I know what I'm going to be doing the rest of tonight" his roommate was like "wth are you talking about?" and he said "I'm going to try and talk to her... she looks out of my league but it doesn't hurt to try." So.. he did. BUT.. my sister came up to him multiple times trying to play cupid because she's evil like that. He started feeling weirded out about it and was honestly about to NOT talk to me at all just to get back at her for making him uncomfortable. But according to him, the more he tried talking to me, the more he forgot about how weird my sis was being and just wanted to get to know me. At first he thought I'd be a snobby, stuck up, over confident person but was amazed I was so laidback and easy to talk to. THIS IS ALL ACCORDING TO HIM. Almost word for word.

so..

at the club

after our first date.. we spent all of the next day talking, from 7:30Am till the next night. In fact, we spent all 3 days together.. and after that it seemed as if we've known each other all our lives. it's strange, it's weird, it's unbelievable but I'm not being some weird psycho bitch, these are feelings I've kept inside that HE confirmed by voicing them out. After only knowing each other for 11 days.. he asked me to be his girlfriend. He had an amazing date planned out the day he asked me.. and he almost didn't ask me (he was scared I'd think we were moving too fast or that he'd scare me away) so I said YES on JUNE FIRST. LOLS!! Easiest date to remember~

at JJ Lin concert at AHMAP

We've only been dating.. umm.. 24 days today, and only official 13 days.. but he says I know more about him than his parents and when we're together, everything is so natural. Our conversations never trail off to silence, the topics never seem forced, our connection is just so smooth and alive. I was scared this would just be a small infatuation that will die after the first month or after he asks me to be his girlfriend.. and it really could still be that.. but judging by how things are going, this spark is waterproof. It's almost like.. every day we see each other our connection grows and grows, the intensity very constant.

I've NEVER felt this way before. EVER. It's like.. from those stories you read about people finding THE ONE and just knowing? Yea.. like that. We just.. know. As crazy as that sounds.

hahaha I sound like a cheesy idjit in love I suppose? That's not a bad thing. :) I'm just simply happy. Contentedly happy. Elated happy. The type of happy you can't just wipe away with little effort. The questionable happiness that comes with new relations that you think will die once the newness of it all fades, but doesn't, and your stuck thinking you're in a dream type of happiness. Yea, that.

:)

HELLO FROM JAPAN/TAIWAN!

:) How's it going everyone??

I'm finally done with finals! LOLS! Day of my last final, I zipped over to the airport and flew off to Tokyo, Japan! Yes, again. I was there last year during the summer as well but I think everyone should indulge in a nice trip somewhere at least once a year! We ate, shopped, walked, etc etc, then jumped on a flight to Taiwan today and here I am now! Taipei, Taiwan to be exact, I'll be here for 3 days, then off to Taitung, Taiwan for 2, then back to Taipei for another 3!

I know I know, I promised a post about the new man in my life but that'll have to wait! I'm using the internet in my mom's hotel room, the one in me and my sister's room is currently being worked on (our suite used to be 2 individual rooms so they're rerouting the connection)!

ALL PICTURES TAKEN FROM GOOGLE IMAGES, I OWN NONE OF THEM AT ALL AND AM NOT TAKING CREDIT FOR THEM!

obviously I haven't uploaded the pictures from my camera yet so I'm only trying to give you guys a small taste! Better with some images than none right right? :)

We're staying at the AMBASSADOR here in Taipei, gorgeous on the outside, so modern and glam on the inside! Best of all, the stay here is free. The owner of this resort is a close friend of my dad's, in fact, he was constantly calling to ask us to come over to Taiwan just to look at his new hotel. I haven't been back here in SIX YEARS. So many things have changed, very much of it is an improvement!

I will definitely talk about my fiance soon. Oh yes. Fiance. HAHAHAH well.. indirect proposal, he says he owes me a ring but at least we got the "will she say yes? no? maybe? fuck!" out of the way. :p I'm holding off on that post because it'll be a LONG one. Filled with pictures from when we first met up to now.

See you babes soon!

KayKay

my DG boyfriend

:) I'm working on a post of my new boyfriend (how we met, pics so far, his history, etc etc etc) just so you girls can get an insight as to how my love life is developing lately.

I'm actually VERY excited to share him with you girls!! This seems so different compared to all the men I've dated in the past.. I mean.. there was my first love.. then my love of 3.5 years. All real love, that much I can attest to, but with him, it's a different type of feeling. I could never imagine myself marrying any of my old boyfriends/guys I've dated even though they've always told me they could see a future with me, but with him, I really CAN see a future. I CAN see a wedding and a family. This clearly.. CLEARLY excites me because I've never felt anything like this before!!

Our chemistry is amazing, almost everything we say, do, think, etc completely FITS. Our sense of humor, our arrogant sarcastic sense of humor actually, our intelligence (the way he researches/learns is the same way/content as I), our food tastes, the way our bodies perfectly fit into each other like puzzle pieces. FORREAL. When I'm not wearing heels, my shoulder goes right under his armpit without raising his shoulder or lowering it, so when he's putting his arm around me, we just slide together! He's the perfect mesh of all the things my parents/friends wanted for me PLUS what I've been looking for, all rolled up into one 6'1 tree trunk who thinks I'm the most amazing person alive and treats me like a princess, not an expensive glass vase on a pedestal.

What does that mean you ask? What my parents/friends look for and what I look for? hahaha you'll see. I suppose my hints would be that he's a gentlemanly romantic rebellious bad boy who's academic achievements clashes with his I don't care rebellious type of attitude. At the same time, he's super sweet romantic and geeky but also smooth suave and yummy. mmmmmmmmm....... this is making me miss him. I'll post a more detailed/picture filled post next time! probably tonight or tomorrow~!